stand by me

ayah dan ibu ku.

 

Life is not measured by the breaths you take,
but by the moments that take your breath away.

Inspiration

I am 19 years old and while that may not be old, it's old enough to have learned a few lessons in my lifetime. For the longest time I used to think that my parents were the meanest people alive. Throughout my life, I have been lucky enough to have a very good relationship with my parents. They have supported me, given me necessary criticism, and taught me a great deal about how to live my life.

When you were only a child, the ones who were always by your side, talked to you with all the sweetest words and the ones who were so happy to burst into tear when your spoke the first word they are your parents. Day by day, my parents were the leaders and also the instructors for my first steps into the outside world. Therefore, you have to agree that, with their love and caring, no one in the world can be the best teacher for all the first lessons as our parents.

Every morning, I can see the shining smile comes from my mother. I believe that my parents think about me almost every single day. I imagine that only a minority of children does not feel this to some extent, but I actually have tangible proof that this is true. Growing up, my mother and father always told me that they were my best friends and no matter what they would always be there for me. My father always inspired me to do the right things, to be strong, and be independent. At such a young age, I went through many stages in my life were I disagreed with what they told me. I would go through times where I said I hated them so much for punishing me, enforcing rules, and keeping me from doing the things that I wanted.

At the time, they were the last people I would consider my friends. However, as I have grown and matured with age, I have come to realize one thing I never did before, my parents are means more to me then best friends. With their love and guidance, my parents have been a major inspiration in my life and have defiantly had an enormous impact on the person that I have become.

Large City vs Small Town

  When talked about where you prefer to live in, a big city or a small town, different people have different point of views. Living in big cities and small towns, both have their own advantages and disadvantages. Although it is bit difficult to say that whether living in big city is of more advantage than living in small towns or vice-versa, from a personal and psychological perspective, I am in favor of living in a big city. The city life is fast paced, and facilities are more easily available. Any new products which come in markets, ranging from electronic items to even a simple pen, are instantly available in the city as soon as the products are launched. There are wide variety of shops and thus wide variety of choices to choose from.

  Apart from the availability of products, the standard of living is much higher in cities when compared to towns. Too many job opportunities and wide range of products available depending on each ones budget has led to the improvement in standard of living. The city grows each day, with some or the other new project coming up everyday. In cities we find large number of entertainment multiplexes, shopping malls, educational institutions, hospitals, restaurants and others growing in number each day. The standard of education is also very high in cities. The easy availability of technology and modern teaching methods may also be one of the reasons for this. In cities, we meet wide variety of people coming from various places. As a result of which we get to meet different people, share opinions, get to know different culture, get to taste different varieties of food and the list goes on. Thus enabling our over all personality development, which helps us to lead a better society life.

  I do agree that living in cities has got some disadvantages such as Pollution, traffic jams and increased cost of living. However when compared to advantages, the disadvantages are negligible. Thus I believe living in city is more beneficial than in a small town. On the others hand, small town is also suitable for people who wants to leave in peaceful life. Just imagine, working in a small peaceful garden enclosed with a fence of redolent arbors. You are surrounded with fresh air, quiet environment, and friendly neighbors. It is popularly believed that it is impossible to find some place better for living than this one. Obviously it is the best deal, but I can not hold to tell positive and negative aspects about living in a small town.

  Living in a small town is slower paced than living in a large city. Basically, town has only amount of 15,000 people, compared to the larger cities that have over 100,000 people. Everyone knows everyone, one way or another. In larger cities it is very hard to know everyone because of the amount of people and the number of schools. There are only three elementary schools in town. This allows all the children to be in a small class, which enables more one on one learning. There is also only one middle school and one high school in my town. In larger cities, you only get to meet people that live in your area. Bigger cities have assigned districts, depending on what part of city you live in.

  In small town, we do not have any drive-thru restaurants, large supermarkets, or large malls. This is because small towns believe in family owned business and spending time together at a restaurant. Large cities are overcome with all these establishments, and it seems that no one ever just enjoys spending time with family. On Sunday's almost all of the businesses close. This has always been a tradition that allows everyone to spend time with their family and not have to worry about working.

  Conclusion, city and town is same. People must knows how to live and must thankful to god because bring us a good live.

which is better Goverment or Private?

  There are many benefits on studying at university whether it is private or the government. As for me, I would prefer studying in government institutions than in private one. There are many reasons why I choose studying in government institutions. However, I will only discuss three points, in term of money spend, student welfare, and qualification.

  The points is when we study in government institutions we can save more money on our expenditures. Although the fee is to extreme and cause headache, but there is loan and scholarship provided by government to us. Meanwhile, in private institutions it is difficult to receive loans and scholarship. Moreover, the fee is more expensive than the government one. We spend lesser when we study at the government because the institution is more considerable towards their students and there is provision for every public institution. However, in private institutions it was organized by one person and they need lots of money for constructions. As there is no donations or supports.

  At the same time, other reasons why I would choose public institutions is the students welfare is taken care of. As an example, they provided many facilities to students for their convenience. Most public institutions provided their students with transportation facilities so that is easier for students to go out and buy their necessities. This is because, the government institutions mostly located far away from town. Meanwhile, in private institutions there is no transportation provided. This is because , most students in this institutions have their own mobility. Other facilities provided by the public institutions are there is a hostel provided for their students that located in the institutions. This makes it easier for students to go to their class. It is opposite with the public institutions where there is no hostel and students have to stay outside.

  At lass, I will choose to study in government institutions because the qualification here is more accepted than in private one. Most people who study at government institutions find job easier than graduations from private institutions. This is proven because it is not easy to enter the government institutions than the private one. Every students who want to apply for the government institutions must have good examination result and also active is curricular activities. Meanwhile, to apply for private institutions the things that you only need the most are money. It does not matter if your result is not good, you can still apply it and have the chance to be selected as students here. But not all graduations from private institutions is not worthless.

  In the end, no matter what for me the government institution is the best one for me to study in. The government institution is suitable for all people whether they are rich or not. However, the private institutions also have it on benefits and accommodation that is very beneficial in other hand.

udm 7's

6,7,8 march 2010,upm serdang. memories in masum 7's.

so tired.

the mines

kolej international upm

with irfannudin.

memories

 

 

diploma informations of technology and multimedia sem 1(2009).

I Love Living Life. I Am Happy

Nic Vujicic

Nic is thankful for what he HAS.
He's not bitter for what he does NOT have.
I have never met a bitter person who was thankful.
I have never met a thankful person who was bitter.
In life you have a choice: Bitter or BETTER?.
We are put in situations to build our character... not destroy us.
The tensions in our life are there to strengthen our convictions... not to run over us.
As we know,this person is a not normal person.. No arms, No legs, NO WORRIES. but his heart is So Strong. When i watch the video of Nic Vujicic, i m proud of him.he inspired me to be strong just like him..he is independent, kind, good strong,and try to do something without any helped and always wants to challenge himself..
all people must be strong.god give us live.so that we must thankful and be good.

"If I fail, I try again, and again, and again..."

-NIC VUJICIC-

rugby

solid tackle.

scrum

the game begin..

my team. g.r.c

my life line

there's nothing between us..

its totally over..

All i want to tell all of you out there is..I'm SINGLE..but not available for sure..the walls that I built for my relationship are trembling and breaking after all..at the same time..my trust towards any commitment especially in a relations named LOVE fade..

Now...i got no girlfriends..and I felt that no one beside me..and I'm all alone..

Actually..for me...I've sacrificed everything..I meant everything..my heart...my soul and my live..and in one second..Its all gone..fading just like a wind blowing a sand on the beach..all i have in my hands right now is MEMORIES..

I'll never forget her..blessed..one word that describing my relations with her..thanks for giving me this..

"let bygone be bygone..."

from now on..I want to focus on my study..a full attention..i'm totally agree with the people says.."everything happens for the good.."..after all the thing that I through in my life line...I realise something..i must achieve my goal in any way..I love my parents..I love them much..without them..i'm not be able to stand here right now..and live in a world that the God creat for human..its only me who didnt realise this all..but now I know..and I wont forgot it anymore....

by hook or by cook..
I'll try to become a good person..a good son of my father..a good child of my mother..i hope so..
may all the good things that I want to do is blessed.. to all of you out there..I'm so sorry..if I'm doing any mistakes..as an ordinary human..I'm not perfect..nobody's perfect..